Read interesting articles about the lifestyle. Learn the roaps, new tricks, and interesting things.
I have been thinking about writing for a while but I have been nervous. The time has come to just lay it out on the table and tell you my story and hopefully you get something good by learning that this is not an unusual thing. When I first started this adventure called the swinger's life, I had this vision in my head of banging every sweet thing with my rock hard manhood.
I assume you both have been talking about this for awhile, and maybe sharing fantasies about it in bed to stimulate your lovemaking. You need to make sure both of you are really interested, and not just going along. Trust and openness are the bedrock of successful swinging.